Leadership Realities

Knowing Your Why. Purpose Is a Decision, not a Statement

Reports like this (Homelessness amongst Australian Veterans) illustrate why we are passionate and loyal in supporting organisations like RSL Queensland who selflessly exist to service our veteran community.

Most organisations have a purpose. It's usually somewhere on the website. It might be framed on a wall, included in the strategy or introduced to new employees during their first week.

The harder question is whether it actually changes anything.

At The Eighth Mile, we've spent a significant amount of time supporting veterans. Part of that comes from our history. Many of us have served. We've seen what people can contribute during their military careers, and we've also seen how difficult the transition out can be for some.

Veteran homelessness is one of the more confronting examples.

Research into homelessness among contemporary Australian veterans has previously identified challenges extending well beyond simply finding somewhere to live. Social isolation, psychological distress, fractured relationships, risky behaviour and interactions with the justice system can intersect in ways that make transition considerably more complicated.

We don't need another statistic to understand the leadership lesson in that. Knowing what matters should influence what we choose to do.

Purpose Is Easy When It Doesn't Cost Anything

Most of us can agree with a purpose statement. Supporting our community. Developing our people. Doing meaningful work. Looking after those who have served. Very few people are going to stand in a strategy meeting and argue against any of those things.

The test comes when acting on them requires something from us. Time. Money. People. Attention. An opportunity we could have spent somewhere else.

That's when purpose stops being a statement and starts becoming a decision.

If we say something matters but continually allocate our resources elsewhere, eventually we have to question how much it really matters.

Our Why Should Help Us Decide

There's a tendency to talk about organisational purpose as something inspirational. It can be. But its more useful role might be considerably less glamorous.

Purpose helps us choose.

Organisations constantly face competing opportunities. There are more things we could do than we have the capacity to do well.

  • So where do we spend our time?
  • Which partnerships do we pursue?
  • Which work do we decline?

Where are we prepared to contribute without expecting an immediate commercial return? What do we continue doing when nobody is watching?

A clear sense of purpose gives us another filter through which to make those decisions.

It doesn't make the decision for us. But it helps us understand what should carry more weight.

Purpose Becomes More Important When Things Get Difficult

Values are relatively easy to maintain when they align neatly with the easiest option. The interesting moments are when they don't. We see the same thing in leadership.

  • It's easy to say people matter.
  • It's harder when supporting someone requires time we don't have.
  • It's easy to say we value honesty.
  • It's harder when telling the truth might cost us an opportunity.
  • It's easy to say we believe in developing people.
  • It's harder when development means allowing someone to make a decision differently from the one we would have made.

Purpose works the same way.

If it disappears as soon as circumstances become inconvenient, it probably wasn't guiding much in the first place.

Purpose Should Influence Who We Work With

Our connection to the veteran community isn't particularly complicated. It's personal.

  • We know the capability that exists within it.
  • We know the value veterans can bring to organisations and communities after service.
  • We also know transition doesn't look the same for everyone.

Veteran homelessness is one of the more confronting examples. It rarely exists as a single problem. Mental health, relationships, employment, identity, social connection and a loss of purpose can intersect in complicated ways.

It's one of the reasons we've been proud to support organisations such as RSL Queensland over the years, and why our commitment to the veteran community has continued to evolve as The Eighth Mile has grown.

But our purpose isn't simply about working with veterans. It's influenced who we choose to work with more broadly and we've become increasingly selective about that.

We're drawn to principled leaders and organisations genuinely carrying the weight of responsibility. People trying to make difficult decisions well. People responsible for teams, communities and outcomes that matter. People prepared to look honestly at what's happening rather than simply wanting us to tell them they're doing a good job.

They don't need to have a military background. Most don't. What matters is the alignment.

There are plenty of commercially attractive opportunities we could pursue. That doesn't mean they're right for us.

Knowing our why should help us decide not only what work we do, but who we want to do it with.

That's part of what purpose looks like when it moves beyond a statement on a wall.

Purpose Should Be Visible in Our Decisions

Knowing our why doesn't mean doing the same thing forever. The environment changes. Our capability changes. The problems change. The ways we're able to contribute change too.

What should remain is the connection between what we say matters and where we actually place our effort.

For us, that has meant supporting organisations like RSL Queensland. It's meant continuing our work within the veteran community. It's meant developing initiatives such as Ad Meliora. And it's influenced the clients and leaders we choose to work alongside.

The same test applies to leadership more broadly.

  • We can say developing our people matters. Does our calendar reflect that?
  • We can say integrity matters. Does it survive when honesty becomes commercially inconvenient?
  • We can say service matters. Who are we prepared to serve when there isn't an obvious return?
  • We can say we care about our people. What happens when caring for one person requires a difficult decision for the sake of everyone else?

Our priorities are rarely revealed by what we say. They're revealed by the decisions we're prepared to make because of them.

Knowing Our Why Doesn't Make Leadership Easier

Purpose won't remove competing priorities. Sometimes two things that matter deeply will pull us in opposite directions. Sometimes we'll have to say no to worthwhile opportunities. Sometimes commercial realities will constrain what we'd like to do. That's leadership.

Knowing our purpose doesn't remove those trade-offs. It gives us something against which to test them. Perhaps that's the more practical version of knowing our why.

Not a sentence designed to inspire everyone, or something we put underneath the logo.

A reference point.

When the options aren't obvious, what have we already decided matters?

Because if our purpose never influences a difficult decision, it's worth asking whether it's really our purpose at all.

Drawn from lessons learned in the military, and in business, we make leadership principles tangible and relatable through real-world examples, personal anecdotes, and case studies.

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